Good for you. So where abouts are you living in Holland?

i have been to the girl bars in amsterdam. mostly via la vie, You2, and I think the COC still has a womens disco on saturday nights.

but i am mearly a gay man.

i have heard the womens disco is quite a meat market from lesbians. or would that be fish market? <img src="../images/emoticons/ywink.gif">

Hi, hows it going for you the dutch gay way of life ? I live in Rotterdam and been in Holland for similar reasons...to come out and it sure has had its ups and downs....may hear from you, love to know how you are getting on

I am also new to Amsterdam. If you want, contact me at "<a href="mailto:citygirl_nl@yahoo.com" Target="_BLANK">citygirl_nl@yahoo.com</a>", maybe we can meet up for a drink and a chat.

o.k. am in good mood and ready to tell you all I know....but helaas..it's not a lot....and Amsterdam is so not what you would expect/hope for...it's a tight scene!! I hope there's more but I don't think so.....

1. Bars: Vive la Vie, Sarrein, Sappho and new one on Sunday afternoons Kamer 401 (haven't been)

2. Clubs: COC - various nights but usually summit every Saturday night. YOU II, Flirtation - need to watch out for this but every 4 months or so the Lets be Open team organise a ladies night - Flirtation...mmm what else....eh...well rather than me typing more.... suggest you visit.
3. Useful sites:
<a href="http://www.zijaanzij.nl" Target="_BLANK">http://www.zijaanzij.nl</a> and click on Uitgaan (also has addresses for bars/clubs)on seperate link
<a href="http://www.underwateramsterdam.com" Target="_BLANK">http://www.underwateramsterdam.com</a> or
<a href="http://www.letsbeopen.nl" Target="_BLANK">http://www.letsbeopen.nl</a>
And believe it or not I just see there is even a lesbian festival 9/10/11 December!
<a href="http://www.lesbianfestival.nl" Target="_BLANK">http://www.lesbianfestival.nl</a> (have never been to this event).

Good luck...p.s. if going for a drink would be happy to join....

Hello girls,
When I moved to Amsterdam i was hoping it would be easy to meet other bi/lesbians and come out, but now i've noticed that all i have behind (5 yrs in Amsterdam) is a couple of long term unhappy relationships with guys. Been to sappho and You2, but dont like the meat market feeling, and anyway I dont feel comfortable of picking up girls / being picked up in a bar. Besides the lesbian scene in Amsterdam is really small, everyone knows everyone, and everyone's been with everybody! all i want is to meet a nice sweet girl, is that too much to ask??
I heard there's a girl chat called Silvia or Sophie.nl something like that, does anyone know? A bi friend of mine used to meet nice girls there.. Please help, I'd love to meet someone (doesnt we all?) but does it always have to go via a bar and being drunk??

Hey Nikitasyt i recognized your email address - i emailed you earlier today..

I would be up for a general meet and greet this Sat.

Unfortunately can't make it this weekend - actually weekends are way too busy now for rest of December...enjoy if you all rendezvous!
If meeting up in Jan or during week ...can contact me at <a href="mailto:neediamac@yahoo.co.uk" Target="_BLANK">neediamac@yahoo.co.uk</a> ; )

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Unfortunately can't make it this weekend - actually weekends are way too busy now for rest of December...enjoy if you all rendezvous!
If meeting up in Jan or during week ...can contact me at <a href="mailto:neediamac@yahoo.co.uk" Target="_BLANK">neediamac@yahoo.co.uk</a> ; )

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Hi,
I am a lesbian living in Den Haag but willing to come for drinks in Amsterdam to meet some new friends. If you are meeting again in January after the 14th, let me know. email me at <a href="mailto:jess6269ca@yahoo.com" Target="_BLANK">jess6269ca@yahoo.com</a>
Cheers

Hi
I live in Den Haag, girl and I have a boyfriend - the reason because I am here -
I would like to meet some bx girls, and have time together as make dinners, go to drink something in this boring city, watch movies, go dancing, play... I miss my italian passion here, I am becaming a cucumber...untasteful like the dutch one!
So just for fun, relax, and chat let's meet eachother!
p.s. I am 29 years old.

If you do decide to visit amsterdam and wanna catch up with other people then I will be happy to meet up with you guys for drinks and chats. <a href="mailto:maxineama@yahoo.com" Target="_BLANK">maxineama@yahoo.com</a>

eh!
that's is the point..I don't want to travel every weekend for going to A'dam for meeting somebody.
I would like to have it here where I live!

I know what you mean. Wish I can help you but I cant. I'd u change your mind let me know AND Good luck

look at your e.mail

Now your turn to check out your e-mail

hey...
im not a lesbian and am probably not even bi, but i am bi-curious...and i would love to make some non straight<img src="../images/emoticons/ysmile.gif"> friends...i live close to amsterdam but people all around still seem to be spaghetti straight...i have considered checking out a girliesBar but i dont think im up for that...so, any suggestions on how to simply be chill and hook up with some open minded girls?
i am 22 btw...

email me at <a href="mailto:IrisBlue2006@yahoo.com" Target="_BLANK">IrisBlue2006@yahoo.com</a>

I have a general question.

Do lesbians hang out?

Everyone one I have ever been friends with finds a girlfried very quickly, moves in, get's cats, gains considerable weight, and never leaves the house again.

Hi,
I moved to Holland one year ago for love, my girlfriend is from here. I left my job and everything in my country (Spain) and I came here to live in a village near Amersfoort. Here it is crazy boring and I would like to know if there is someone in the same situation and wants to meet other people.
Here I am.
<a href="mailto:spaanje@yahoo.es" Target="_BLANK">spaanje@yahoo.es</a>

Read the various emails about lesbian/ bi meets and greets. Heard there's one tonight at Kamer 401.
I might go - or not...
It's gay night (both sexes).
Anyone in?
Nicole

Good day all,

Was wondering if you guys are still meeting up or if anything is planned? Would love to join in for a cheeky pint or whatever it may be!

Hope to hear from one of you one of these days..!

Thanks

Hello guys,

I recently moved to The Netherlands for a job. I'm interested in meeting new people to chat and maybe to go out with. I also would love to join if you have future meeting plans...

destiny

Hi there,

I was just wondering if there were any fun loving lesbians/bi's who were going to be in amsterdam on queens night/day....

Please mail me on <a href="mailto:smile_laugh_dance@hotmail.com" Target="_BLANK">smile_laugh_dance@hotmail.com</a>

I would love to hear from ya xxx

i am an american, 23 years old lesbian. i am dying to meet a match in belgium in june. who will it be? i want to spend one month with her...all fun and games....

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Hey jaybuzz,..Same thing here,bi-curious,..Never tried it before though..U?
Well,i live in The Hague,which is not too far from A'dam..
Does any1 know any gay bars here?But nice ones where u get to meet internationals as well,..And not depressed 40 year olds,lol.
Anyways,some advice would be greaty appreciated.
I'm also 22 btw <img src="../images/emoticons/ywink.gif">
(Oh,i just noticed that msg was posted moths ago,..now u probably all already got ur own thing going on <img src="../images/emoticons/bbutbut.gif">..mehh..)

hey...
im not a lesbian and am probably not even bi, but i am bi-curious...and i would love to make some non straight friends...i live close to amsterdam but people all around still seem to be spaghetti straight...i have considered checking out a girliesBar but i dont think im up for that...so, any suggestions on how to simply be chill and hook up with some open minded girls?
i am 22 btw...

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Hi
I think where you have to go is to Flirtation, it is an organized party who takes place in Panama disco in Amsterdam every two months more or less, they have a web page and you have to be fast buying the ticket because they are sold out in a couple of days.
There you can find girly girls, three types of music, shows. I really like it.
Cheers,

Cristina


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Hey jaybuzz,..Same thing here,bi-curious,..Never tried it before though..U?
Well,i live in The Hague,which is not too far from A'dam..
Does any1 know any gay bars here?But nice ones where u get to meet internationals as well,..And not depressed 40 year olds,lol.
Anyways,some advice would be greaty appreciated.
I'm also 22 btw
(Oh,i just noticed that msg was posted moths ago,..now u probably all already got ur own thing going on ..mehh..)

hey...
im not a lesbian and am probably not even bi, but i am bi-curious...and i would love to make some non straight friends...i live close to amsterdam but people all around still seem to be spaghetti straight...i have considered checking out a girliesBar but i dont think im up for that...so, any suggestions on how to simply be chill and hook up with some open minded girls?
i am 22 btw...

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hey...
im not a lesbian and am probably not even bi, but i am bi-curious...and i would love to make some non straight friends...i live close to amsterdam but people all around still seem to be spaghetti straight...i have considered checking out a girliesBar but i dont think im up for that...so, any suggestions on how to simply be chill and hook up with some open minded girls?
i am 22 btw...

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I second everything said in this post, if anyone's interested in meeting up please let me know! (i'm 21)

Hi girls,

I just moved into the lovely Netherlands for work resons. Well, there's some love drama involved too but that's a long story. Fact is, I've been here 2 months and have been to Vive la Vie and didn't like it too much. I rode past Sappho but it seemed dead so I didn't go inside... I guess I'm still in the "shy" phase. Should I try YouII? I'm 26 and I like beer but I also want a quiet night home with a lovely girlfriend.
Every girl I see on the street I wonder: is she gay? - but if I don't pro-actively do something, it might be years untill fate drops me a nice lesbian girl in my lap... I'm just ranting here... But the question of "how to meet girls in Amsterdam" remains.
Cheers girs! <img src="../images/emoticons/ywink.gif">

Well, Raluca, as a 40+ 'boring' bi-woman not sure if i'm qualified to answer your questions, but i'm not such a 'bar' woman myself... took me a while to walk myself alone into viva le vie but when i did i met some really nice people.
You might also like to check out Underwater Amsterdam
<a href="http://www.underwateramsterdam.com" Target="_BLANK">http://www.underwateramsterdam.com</a>/
And there is Sugar and Serrein in the Jordan area.
Every few weeks there are happenings at Crea and at Exit... It's scary to go alone, but if you go with someone, then the other women sometimes assume you're dating...
So, hope this has been helpful!
<img src="../images/emoticons/ysmile.gif">
me
PS> Once you meet a few girls i'm sure you'll just be spending quiet nights in...


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Hi girls,

I just moved into the lovely Netherlands for work resons. Well, there's some love drama involved too but that's a long story. Fact is, I've been here 2 months and have been to Vive la Vie and didn't like it too much. I rode past Sappho but it seemed dead so I didn't go inside... I guess I'm still in the "shy" phase. Should I try YouII? I'm 26 and I like beer but I also want a quiet night home with a lovely girlfriend.
Every girl I see on the street I wonder: is she gay? - but if I don't pro-actively do something, it might be years untill fate drops me a nice lesbian girl in my lap... I'm just ranting here... But the question of "how to meet girls in Amsterdam" remains.
Cheers girs!

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Hi Raluca,

i have the same dilemma, i am not a big 'bar /club fan' myself but how else do you meet people in this town? I think my gaydar is broken! anyway if you want to meet up for just a friendly coffee and chat, email me:

<a href="mailto:irisblue2006@yahoo.com" Target="_BLANK">irisblue2006@yahoo.com</a>

Hi! I am looking for young, attractive, interesting and open lesbians/bi women to go out and have fun together. I am not really after romance or sex. but u never know-)

im 25, bi, student

forgot to leave my email address lol
it is <a href="mailto:eusuks@hotmail.com" Target="_BLANK">eusuks@hotmail.com</a>

looking forward!

HI im claire and i live in wassenaar near the hague with my dutch girlfriend anyone out there from den haag or close?
clairexxx

hi,

i'd invite the les or bi girls who like friendship adn more in the hague or around to e-mail me...we might find things in common...why not?

greetz
burbi
f / 28 / the hague

<a href="mailto:suusexpat@yahoo.com" Target="_BLANK">suusexpat@yahoo.com</a>

If anyone in The Hague is planning a get together then let me know

I'd love to meet some new people. I have many friends here but lately they've all settled down, found girlfriends/boyfriends, moved in together and now spend all their evenings at home. I'd be keen to meet other bi/lesbians in The Hague. I have quite a few lesbian friends but they all think I'm straight. Convincing them otherwise is futile - they just don't take me seriously. :roll:

So does anyone want to go to this place? Never tried it before but I feel like meeting some new people (preferably lesbians) - and the three times I tried to go to lesbain bars/clubs by myself, it's been pretty dissapointing. So expat lesbians out there, please give a sign and let's do something together. Any takers? Just a late beer on a Sunday. No strings attached. Let me know. ralucaavescan@yahoo.com

hi ladies, i'm always in Ams for good beers every friday. anyone fancy a pint?

Hello Raluca, I have exactly the same problem as you (had)! I think I will just be dying alone. The chance that "fate drops me a nice lesbian girl in my lap" is so tiny.

Sounds like good life for me, just the question is how to find a girlfriend?!

hey im moving to den haag very soon and i dunno anyone there.
Im a lesbian as well so let me know if we can hang out! It would be nice!

XXX

Check out:


http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lbexpatamsterdam/

I am lesbian trapped in man's body

Cheers,

Lesbian here, living in the hague!

ayelet _ (at) fastmail.fm !

Would love to have someone to go to some gay bars with me (sucks going on my own ).

how old are u guys?

hello,

im very young so im just discovering myself... kinda curious, would like to meet some bi/lesbian girls to help me out, im very lost and confussed

18/f

i live in the hague

rk.fidgelity@hotmail.com

thanks

hey cold beauty,

i've noticed your post is almost a month old, but i'm kinda in the same position as you are. Living in TH, i'm 20 and just discovering myself.
Let me know if you want to meet up for a drink or if u've found nice places to go to...

newseeland@googlemail.com

greetings

Cool Ill come with you! have LOTS of experience of gay bars!

Hey cold beauty. I'm 19. Are you still living in the Netherlands? It would be ncie to meet. Where abouts in Noord are you living? I'm in Alkmaar