QUOTE (ratkat @ Jun 16 2009, 08:32 PM)

My friend recently lost his and said it was a bit of a shock and has hindered his travel and budget quite a bit, and he has a mortgage so I suppose that didn't offset much....but his colleagues said "welcome to the real world of Dutch income!" .... I suppose if all you care about is money, you should move or look for a higher-paying job (though I don't believe you can get the 30% ruling again). He likes it here, so is living with it and being appreciative he had it for 10 years.
You must have been doing pretty well to get he 30% ruling, You mean to say after 10 years, you will be living hand to mouth. I find it hard to believe.