QUOTE (utakubeta @ Apr 8 2009, 08:49 AM)

No it's not an easy language.
Being an IT guy, I'm used to logic. Having learned Japanese I figured this couldn't be worse... boy was I wrong.
Dutch is a irregular language. there are almost more exceptions than there are rules.
There is a great deal of memorization of which words are "het" or "de", and it matters for how you construct the pronouns, and the verbs.
There are online courses, berlitz, Rosetta stone, and a 75€ book called Dutch For Expats (which I recommend).
The resources are out there, but asking a cloggie to explain a concept is almost a lost cause. These people don't even understand their own language!
So yes, in 5+ years time you can probbaly learn it well enough, I suggest visiting NOS.NL for practice on your listening skills, and i think telegraaf.nl a newspaper which is at a lower level, and supposedly easier to read.
Just out of curiosity, WHY do you want to come HERE FROM Canada? hell I'D move to Canada if I thought they'd let me in!
Uner, DUTCH is not more difficult to learn than German, Danish, Swedish, Icelandic, English or any other language with germanic roots.
It is just DIFFERENT!
Btw, the same goes for Portuguese: it is not more difficult to learn than French, Italian or Spanis. It is just different!
The Dutch language knows 3 grammatical genders : masculine, feminine and neutral. Both masculine and feminine use "de" (the) while the neutral uses "het" (the/it in English). A lot of problems with English speakers start because they do not differentiate the "de" words in masculine and feminine words, which the Dutch, of course, do naturally.
It is true that one needs to memorise the gender of each word, the pronouns and the verbal forms. However, that is true for any language. Have you thought about the declinations in German or Russian, about the subtle verbal forms in English or Greek? In fact, there are no "easy" languages. Each has its own difficulties.
There are NO logic or regular languages in the whole wide world. Not a single one. In particular English and French are known for all their exceptions to the rules. So it is a bit strange that a (very nice) IT person, who is not an academic linguist, tells you that Dutch is very difficult.
I agree though that asking a Dutchman about grammar is a lost cause. But hey, that's exactly the same in any language, except when you speak with someone who has majored in that language (and even then I'm not sure!).
There are several interesting series of Dutch lessons online. One that I like very much and that is very easy is Lauraspeaksdutch.
A word of advice: if you start learning a language, devote 5 minutes every day repeating the new words you learnt yesterday. If you don't, you will have forgotten your first woeds after two weeks...!